I went to my friend’s 21st birthday party and ended up having sex with her dad – he’s 49, I’m 19 and I’m in love but everyone else seems mad about it

A 19-year-old woman is questioning if she made the right decision after having sex with her friend’s dad during a 21st birthday party.

The woman explained that she and the 49-year-old father were drinking and taking shots together at the party. Later, the two got drunk and ended up having sex at the back of the house.

Despite the 30-year age gap, the woman admitted she liked her friend’s dad and even thought there could be a future with him. But the next morning, she felt overwhelmed with anxiety and wondered if she had made a mistake.

A week later, she turned to a popular Facebook advice group, asking others what she should do about the situation. Her confession sparked a strong reaction.

Many people found it inappropriate for a man nearly 50 years old to sleep with someone much younger than his daughter. Others felt her friend would likely end the friendship if she found out.

One commenter wrote, “You think there’s a future with him because of what? Drinking and hooking up in a backyard?” Another said, “Say goodbye to your friendship.”

Some questioned the dad’s behavior. “How long have you even known her dad? This is disgusting on his part,” someone added.

I went to my friend's 21st birthday party and ended up having sex with her  dad - he's 49, I'm 19 and I'm in love but everyone else seems mad about it |

Others believed the dad might have taken advantage of the young woman. “He sounds like a creep,” one person said. Another added, “You should talk to a therapist about this. The dad should have known better.”

There were also doubts about the relationship’s future. “He’s probably only in it for fun, not something serious,” a commenter suggested.

Many encouraged the woman to seek professional help and reconsider her decisions. For now, it’s unclear how the situation will impact her friendship or what steps she plans to take next.


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